We would also say to you, if ever you desire to leave a relationship, ask yourself who you are taking with you when you leave. And the answer is when you leave, you are taking you with you and really it is you who creates the reality. So if it is that you desire change, then it is for you each to take responsibility for yourself, for your own beingness, and thus you may create a relationship of much long duration, much joy and much fulfillment. Responsibility. That is first rule of life, you know. Take responsibility.